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We've searched the website for the Vietnam War Memorial for every male in our class, and Dick's is the only name we found.

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* 4/12/2025 Obit: Penelope Chrisman Paulley, affectionately known as Penny [West], passed away peacefully on April 12, 2025, at the age of 84 in Traverse City, Michigan. Born on December 29, 1940, in Glen Ellyn, Illinois, Penny lived a life full of love, laughter, and a deep commitment to her community and family.
Penny's journey in life was marked by her dedication to caring for those in need. As a registered nurse, she spent countless hours tending to the sick and offering comfort to those in distress. Her passion for care led her to establish the Crystal Penny home care service, a venture that touched many lives in the community.
She was a member of the Daughters of the King of the Episcopal Church. Her commitment to her community was further exemplified through her active involvement with organizations such as PEO, the Old Mission Women's Club, and the Old Mission Congregational Church. Penny also hosted "Stitch & Bitch" gatherings, where she enjoyed conversation and humor while keeping up with what was going on.
Penny's sharp wit was legendary. She had a way of making everyone laugh with her cutting/direct sense of humor. Her warmth and caring shone through in everything she did, from cooking delicious meals to offering help whenever it was needed.
Penny was predeceased by her parents, Robert and Bonnie West, her brother Robert West Jr., and her husbands, Daniel Martin and Damon Paulley. She is survived by her loving children, Philip and Wendy Martin, Granddaughters Savannah and Laura, Great grandchildren Reign and Ronin, along with her cherished cats, Rafiki and Sadie.

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* 6/3/2025 "Chuck Gelhaar, successful insurance broker, husband to his high school sweetheart, Green Bay Packers owner, champion of the underdog, lover of Neil Diamond, public servant, and a man of many opinions and a strong will died on June 3, 2025 at 84.
Chuck was a product of the Midwest. Born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, he spent his teen years causing trouble in Glen Ellyn, Illinois with his Irish twin older brother, Jim. He met his future wife, Becky Bulleit, at age 17 and together enjoyed all that high school in the 1950s had to offer.
Iowa State University was his choice of college, earning his degree in Civil Engineering while building deep relationships with his brothers of Delta Tau Delta. After college, he put his engineering skills to work in the insurance industry in Chicago and made the big move to La Canada, CA in 1967. Success begat success and he became an executive at Bayly, Martin & Fay, then CEO of Oland International insurance brokerage and eventually the owner of CJG Insurance Services, which he later sold to Bolton Insurance Services before retiring.
Chuck and Becky married in 1963 and went on to have two daughters, Lisa and Laura. He made sure they could change a tire, drive a stick shift and properly wash and dry a car in the driveway. He beamed with pride walking them down the aisle at their weddings.
His dream of boat ownership came true in the 1990s when he purchased a 48 foot California motor yacht christened “The 19th Hole” with a slip at the Balboa Bay Club in Newport Beach. He and Becky spent every weekend on their boat, entertaining family and friends and proudly taking them out for harbor cruises. That boat was his happy place.
Retirement was not a time for rest. It was the start of years of service to his community. He served on the board and eventually as President of Oakmont Country Club and spent most of his days golfing and enjoying his friends. He then took his leadership skills to the City of La Canada Flintridge serving on the Planning Commission, Public Works & Traffic Commission and working as campaign manager and treasurer for a number of City Council campaigns. He also served as a member of the city’s Volunteer Emergency Response Team and La Canada Unified School District bond oversight committee.
His favorite role by far was that of “Grandpa Chuck.” From the time each of his five grandchildren was born, he would whisper, “Grandpa Chuck loves you” in their ears at every opportunity. He attended their birthday parties, school fundraisers, sports games, activities and graduations with pride. Trying unsuccessfully to interest them in golf, playing with them in the backyard pool and helping them “drive” his boat filled him with joy.
His family will miss him. His wife of 62 years, Becky Gelhaar, Lisa (Gelhaar), Scott, Jack, Kelly and Casey Phelan; Laura (Gelhaar), Doug, Megan and Kyle Chapin; brother James Gelhaar; and his beloved dog Mitzi.


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* 4/20/2018 Although Jim Gruenberg in 2016, we have only just today found this out. He was a very distinguished surgeon, having graduated from U Michigan med school, followed by a residency at University Hospital U Wisconsin. From 72 to 74 Jim was a Major in the US Army as Chief of Professional Services and Chief of Surgery at the 95th Evacuation Hospital in Da Nang, South Vietnam. He then held important positions at hospitals and universities in Michigan for the rest of his career. We will always remember him, though, as that mouse-like actor in the picture, near the bottom, in the "From Our History" column found among our gallery pages here. Obit.
Jim's Stanford 63 class yearbook picture.


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